Growing up in a rough neighborhood, you really can’t see your future. I lived in this apartment complex for 12 years. I saw the worst possible things in life. People were shot, kids got beat up for no reason and gangs fought each other daily. I grew up around a lot of violence but I never let the violence influence me to join. Living in this apartment complex I had to be in the house when the street lights came on, which was around 7:30. After dark, this complex became the worst place to live. We had two bolts on our main door along with a chain across the top. We also had a stick behind the balcony door because living on the second floor people usually find a way to get onto our porch. Making it through the night was a blessing, that’s anywhere you sleep but especially in that neighborhood.
During the day the apartment complex is a much better place to be. At this complex they had a playground, tennis court with a basketball goal on one side and a big grass area where we played football. I played every sport but basketball was my main sport. I could dribble, shoot, pass and jump. I had every basketball skill in my arsenal and my friends and family knew it. They encouraged me to play basketball and be the best that I could be. My family didn’t want me to end up like some of my friends that had no future for themselves because of theirs bad decisions. They also said people don’t expect kids to be anything in life that came from a rough neighborhood.
When my family told me that, my mind was made up. I started working on my game each and every day. I attended Wakefield High school in Raleigh North Carolina. My senior year I was ranked number 12 prospect in North Carolina. After my senior year was finished, Queens University of Charlotte offered me a full ride scholarship to play basketball. This was the best moment in my life and I will cherish it till the day I die. No one in my family attended college so this is a major accomplishment to me and them. I have been in college for 4 years and my family and friends have been there right by my side no matter what. They came to many of my games and they also call and check up on me on a daily bases. Without my family and friends I don’t know where I would be right now and I thank them from the bottom of my heart.
Antonio Stabler











