It’s that
time of year again. It’s your fall
semester of your senior year and you are getting more excited by the day to
graduate high school. Your graduation
party has been planned, your graduation money gifts are rapidly coming in the
mail and you already can’t wait to go back to school next fall as a big
freshman in college. Today, that’s the
norm for students. Not for me.
Being a
very young graduation high school senior, I had a different route I wanted to take
before heading to a University. Golf is
something I wanted to do in college and I wanted to make sure my game was sharp
enough coming into what ever college I chose at the time to make a direct
impact on the team. Back in my early
high school days, my family would vacation down in Hilton
Head Island , and on that island there was a world famous junior
golf academy by the name of the IJGA.
This place had a reputation for developing junior golfers into some of
the best high school players in the country.
At first, I would joke around with my parents about sending me to a
school where golf was the priority. They
would look at me like I was some kind of fool.
However, as my golf got more serious and we found out there was a
post-graduate program at the academy, my parents and I decided that this would
be the rest route for me to take. I was
headed to the academy in 2008.
As all my
high school classmates went onto their various institutions, I was on my way to
South Carolina
to work on my golf game and ultimately sign with a school for the next 4
years. At first, the academy was fun and
I enjoyed it greatly. Waking up at 7
Monday through Friday for a 3 hour practice, followed by a workout then back to
the course in the afternoon to play was a great way to spend your days. Until about November. As you know, Minnesota is a cold cold place, and this
year was the first year I was able to play golf, outdoors, all year round. At first, I didn’t think me getting sick of
the game I loved would ever come into factor, but the later it got in the year
and the more early mornings I had to wake up began to wear on me. I started to look forward to coming home more
than practicing. It took a lot of will
power for me to continue, and when I came home for the holidays, deciding
whether I wanted to come back for the spring semester was the top topic with my
parents. However, when I chose to come
back, looking back on it now was one of the best decisions I have made.
For
northerners, coming down to Hilton Head to play golf literally all day every
day is stressful, and like I said it took me a while to get used to it. It was tough to realize it at the time, but
the academy not only helps their kids become more accomplished golfers, but
also stresses becoming more of a strong willed individual. Looking back on it now, I learned more about
myself off the golf course that I can take with me and use for the rest of my
life than what I was taught on the range.
My advice to all IJGA’ers right now is to stay positive and to just keep
on grinding. I would go back and do it
again in a heartbeat.
Until next time,
That sounds like a truly awesome experience! It must have taken a lot of guts to postpone your education for a year to pursue your dream, and so I commend you for that. Playing golf can be one of the most frustrating things to do in the entire world, and I envy you for being able to stick with it for so long. I normally can't finish 18 holes without chucking a club in the air out of frustration so I can't imagine what it's like to keep your calm during tournaments and playoffs. Great post!
ReplyDeleteThis is quite the inspirational post, CJ. I think what you talked about, "keep on grinding," can be applied to many people in their endeavours. Particularly for Seniors who are graduating this year from college. At times the hectic schedule of school, sports, work, internships, and other extra-curricular can wear out a person no matter how much he/she loves doing it. It is important for many students to remember to continue with a strong momentum year round, and accomplish as much as one can possibly. Find something you love, and dedicate your time to it, eventually we'll be able to reap the rewards.
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